It’s okay to be selfish!

Hi Gorgeous,

I want you to know that it’s okay to be a little bit selfish.  You don’t have to put everyone else’s needs before your own.  And it’s about time you stood up and started thinking about number one for a change!

Here’s a day in the life of the type of person I’m exactly here to help.   If this is a typical day in your life or similar, I strongly suggest you answer the questions that follow.

“Your husband wakes before you and gets himself ready for work.  You get out of bed not long after and wake the kids.  You tell them to get up and have a wash, have a shower, or do whatever they need to get themselves ready for school.  Meanwhile you dart into the kitchen, put on the jug and get coffee ready for you and hubby.  While you’re in the kitchen you decide you might as well prepare the school lunch boxes.  One, two, three lunches sorted.  Coffee is ready…….you call out to hubby “coffee’s ready”.  As hubby merges for breakfast and coffee, the kids follow suit.  “What do you kids want for breakfast?”  One wants toast, the other two want cereal.  You get their breakfasts ready and while their eating, you dart upstairs to get yourself ready for work.  All showered, outfit on, teeth brushed, make up on, hair fixed, you are good to go.  Back downstairs and the kids have finished breakfast and left dishes as is where is on the table.  You’ve forgotten all about your coffee and it’s now cold.  You continue to motivate the kids “are you ready for school?”, they all reply “yes!”.  A quick clean up in the kitchen, dishes in the dishwasher, dishwasher turned on, table wiped down, oh and quickly pull meat, or something out of the freezer for dinner.  Hubby gives you a quick peck on the cheek and he’s out the door and off to work.  “Are you kids ready?, we’re leaving in 5″.   Quickly put on a load of dirty washing, quick tidy up of the rooms, then before you know it you’re all out the door and piling into the car.  You drop the kids of at school and proceed to drive to work in record time.  Then you hit traffic!  Oh how time flies when you don’t want it to…… find yourself now rushing to work.  You get in right on time.  It’s okay because you have your work day all planned……you know what you gotta do today and you’re all ready.  You’re clever, because you planned everything you needed to do today, yesterday.  Well at least you thought you had it all sorted….., as soon as you walk in the door your boss loads you up with unexpected work and you are now under pressure.  Feeling overwhelmed yet?  No breakfast and you haven’t even had your coffee……….hey but at least the kids are sorted and hubby got off to work okay.  I can eat and/or have coffee at my first break!……but you don’t, because you get caught up working.  And your day goes on and you get through it.  After work, you pick up the kids from school, go home and make them a snack because they’re hungry.  While they’re eating, you dart outside to hang the washing you put on earlier that morning.  All hung, you haven’t eaten all day so you finally get to have a snack and a cup of tea.  When you’re done, a quick clean up of the kitchen and now it’s time to prepare dinner.  Hubby walks in the door after a hard days work.  He’s starving.  Then your night goes on and you get through it then you sleep, wake up and do it all again the next day.”

This is just a quick scenario of “a day in the life of ” a busy mother.  Yours may not be exact, but I’m sure it’s pretty damn similar.

Does this story resonate with you?

Is this the day-to-day life you’re living now?

Would you like to change this so you are living a more fulfilling life?

If you answered yes, then proceed to answer the following questions.

You’ll notice I don’t ask for your name, email address or phone number.  No, I don’t want to contact you at all!  It’s simply a few questions for you to answer for yourself.  I’m genuinely here to help you sort out what feels like an overwhelming, de ja vu life.

Take all the time you need.  This is called “you” time and you’re about to dig deep and do some inner work on yourself right now…….



If you feel like you got value out of answering these questions and want more.  Click on the link below and you’ll be re-directed to a page where you can enter your details, then you’ll be sent 5 powerful tools you can use to lay out the foundation of your dream life.

Click here

Are you willing to do whatever it takes to balance your life, so that you’re being an amazing mother and wife and still living a fulfilling life that you truly adore?

Then click here and you’ll be sent 5 powerful tools to get you started.

I believe in you…….

It’s time to start believing in your own ability to create the life of your dreams x

Amy Jack
Personal Life Coach

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